A funny thing relating to my depression just happened about an hour ago.
Even though it was Sunday and I had slept in, and the weather was sunny and beautiful, and it was only 1:30, I decided to take a nap, which was pretty convenient, since I still had my pajamas on.
But the minute I crawled into bed, my phone went off. Daughter # 2 texting me.
This went on for a few minutes until daughter #1 decided to text me as well.
I got the message from the Universe: get out of bed and get dressed.
So I did.
And that’s when the texts pretty much stopped.
How is this Relevant to Depression?
I tell you this for several reasons:
- Depression is often a companion to ADHD
- The winter months are often prime time for depression, especially for those of us in the Northern Hemisphere
- Medication does not always manage all of the symptoms of depression
So let’s talk about what I did right after that little eye opener. 😉
First, as I said, I got dressed in real clothes that I wouldn’t be ashamed to be seen in publicly.
Then I went downstairs and because it was a beautiful day, I went outside with the dog. I soaked up some sun – which gives us much needed vitamin D – and I noted that my sage had survived the winter and was still growing.
What Does Going Outside have to do with Depression?
- Vitamin D is something many of us are deficient in, especially if we live in the northern United States or further north into Canada. (The same is true across the world – the further north you are, the more likely you are deficient.) Vitamin D can be absorbed from the sun – but only directly, not through glass – and can be valuable in treating depression.
- Time spent in nature – being outside on my deck, with my dog, and seeing real live plants – can be helpful in treating depression and can also help with ADHD symptoms, sort of like meditating.
Now I should mention that I am on antidepressant medication as well. A couple of months ago I accidentally went off of it for a few weeks and began to notice some really concerning things; I was weepy and overly emotional, sometimes sad, sometimes angry. When I realized what was happening, I got right back on the meds. I probably should have seen my doctor first, but I didn’t.
If you don’t take or want to take prescription medications for depression, you can try herbal remedies like Sam-e, ginkgo biloba, lavender, lemon balm, or kava. I have used many of these in the past, but personally did not find them effective enough for me. I do like lemon balm for calming though.
It’s important to get out as much as you can when you are suffering from depression. Seeing friends or just being outside can be helpful.
Seeking counseling can also help; I find that useful at times.
I also journal and meditate as a way to calm my thoughts and help me be more positive.
What about you?
Do you find the winter months more depressing? What do you do to help yourself?